I’m attempting a year of positivity after
a slightly below par 2015. Don’t worry this isn’t one of those new year resolution
blogs which I’ll be giving up by mid February, (bleurgh!) A dear friend told me that
rather than resolutions I should have goals. And not just general twaddle like ‘lose
weight’, ‘run more’ but make them specific and be held accountable by someone
so you have to explain how you’re doing or face the naughty step if you haven’t!
I liked this idea of being productive and having a plan.
So when I read an article by
Magdalena Bak-Maier mapping out a productivity plan it only strengthened my
resolve. For January, she advised to find supportive role models – well I’ve
been mulling this over, my afore-mentioned mate is definitely one, but I also
started ruminating about dream role models. Kind of like the ‘dinner party
guest game’ but with an inspirational twist!
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Imelda Staunton in a rehearsal room
What performer hasn’t marvelled at
this lady’s talent since her commanding performance in Gypsy? I admire her for
her talent, her enduring marriage to the equally cool Carson and for her
ability to just be magnetic in every performance she gives whether on stage or
screen. But my main reason for having her as a dream role model is because she’s
short; she would give me confidence as a small actress. I was once told by a
director that it was a shame I was so short because I’d never play a lead. Now,
the real reason may have more to do with my lack of star quality talent but the
fact that I took it to heart must have had something to do with my lack of
belief in my ability to succeed. I used it as an excuse when explaining away
lost auditions but even to myself before I went in. Now all the positive
thinking books in the world will tell you that your beliefs can shape who you
are and what happens to you. So Imelda and I would hang out in a rehearsal
room, chatting through scripts being small and fabulous!
o
Charlotte Reed walking in the country
I discovered Charlotte Reed via
Facebook; she started drawing images to help her get through depression and as
they helped her she began to realise that they could help others. She has a
stall at Portobello Market and has released a book called May The Thoughts BeWith You. Her quirky drawings are full of energy and positivity. Their message
is succinct and straight to the point; they achieve the same reaction as a
long-winded article. They are colourful and a couple now adorn my bedroom wall.
You don’t need to have suffered from a similar illness to reap the benefits
from her work. Having a walk outside with this dream role model would get me
out of a dull mood and make me see the brighter side of life.
o
My Grandad in armchairs with a cup of tea and biscuits
This man is a real role model and
very much alive and kicking so I’m cheating the brief rather. But he’s special
so I don’t care. My Pop has taught me hundreds of things including how to play
snap and that there’s no such thing as a kipper but as an adult I’ve begun to
see the real lessons - Family comes first, they will always be there to support
and catch you. A close family is the ultimate safety net; a person’s eyes tell
you the truth; a relationship is based on compatibility and the secret to a 60
year marriage is each person thinking they’re getting the best end of the deal.
I wear my heart on my sleeve far too
much, I’d tell the postman about my latest drama, but his reserve shows me that
there is a dignity to keeping something back. But his ultimate lesson is the
power of the mind; you can do and survive anything if you put your mind to it,
it is a powerful tool. And that is why my Pop is one of my ultimate role
models.
o
Antony Sher sipping a GnT by the River Avon
Another actor – but this man’s passion
for his craft is why he made the list. His published diaries are full of his
creativity when preparing for a role; he uses art, research and truly submerges
himself. I envy this ability to live and breathe acting plus his obvious
talent. The way he writes about his life with his partner, Gregory Doran, in
their second home near the RSC makes me want to sit with them by the river sipping
gin. I imagine we’d have gossipy chats peppered with Shakespearean debates and
maybe, just maybe, some of his passion would rub off on me.
So that’s my current four, I’m sure
I’ll think of plenty more just like we do with the dinner party game! I have found this quite nice to think
about. It’s obviously working as this is the first time I’ve felt moved to
write in a few weeks, plus the sun was out today so positive 2016 is going
alright!
Who is inspiring to you? Do let me
know, if only so I can go “Oh Yeah me too!!”
